But is The Assumption Can be Avoided or Solved?
For today's blog of mine, allow me to share my opinions about Assumption also this post is part of Ladies of Hive Community Challenge #309. This topic fucoses about life and the people around us.
Question #1:
Tell us about a time when someone made a wrong assumption about you, without knowing the facts. How did you deal with it? How did it make you feel?
Before I will share my Opinion about the first Question, allow me to share the glimpsed of my Personal reflections or relations with this question.
Backed when I was in highschool, my Family especially my Mother always mad at me without knowing the facts of what is really happening. I saw it in my two eyes about my Elder Sister's doing, she broke the plate and she didn't tell honestly to my Mother. My Mother saw the broken plate and she shouted at me, yelling me and very mad at me because of what's happening of the plate. I was trying to tell my Mother the exact reason in a calm voice but my Mother did not want my Response to her assumptions of me. I went to my room and cried and Ask myself Why did always happen to me?
Another life Story:
My Teacher also assumpted me for the things That I've not done. She was also mad at me and it was very shame because there are lots of students that time when my teacher yelded at me. She was accusing me about the ballpen she always using but the real reason was, she only forgot where it placed the last time she used it. She apologized me, but the shame was always in me.
Is The Apologize Enough?
For me is yes, even if we want some things that we can revenge them the love and understanding always wins.
How Did I deal with It? And What I feel?
Ignoring the assumptions is the best way so the problems wont be bigger. If I buy those assumptions and yelded to the people who yell at me, it will brought a big problems and makes it really more complicated. Even if I felt very hurt so much, in fact It makes me cried that time. The forgiveness, understanding and love always wins. Sometimes we felt also mad but we can't do anything about it. There are people who really jumps conclusions instead of searching for the root of the problems. As for that, it is for us to adjust and understand them so the Problems won't be complicated.
We recently wrote about our favorite colors and how they make us feel. But, how has your favorite color changed over time? What prompted that change?
Since when I was a little Girl, the color I always like is green. My Mother told me that color green helps our mind and eyes to become relaxing and calm. She also added that if I suffered headache, all I have to do is to look for any green views just like leaves of the trees for a few minutes and it the headache will gone. For me, this is effective if we only suffered my minor problems.
But time and years passing by, my favorite color was already change into Blue. I don't know why I really like blue, but As I remembered, blue is the lucky color about the dressed I've wore in aquintance day. Many students amazed of the blue dress I'm wearing and it makes me proud of it.
Hope you like my entry post, Best of luck to everyone.
