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Goodbye again Mallorca

An early start for me today and my last get-up in Mallorca for the foreseeable future.

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At least I got a sunrise at the beach and a couple of low quality photos to share.

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Between the packing and cleaning yesterday, I made some time to pay friends (bars) a final visit to say "I'll see you when I see you". The phrase is rather lame in text but makes sense, sort of, when you don't actually know when you will see someone again.

The community is fairly close in this seaside town and news/gossip gets around far too quickly at times, but it does mean that people always have something to talk about, when the long summer days are seemingly on repeat.

As you can tell by the photo below, the timing of my exit as far as the season goes is rather strange - this week pretty much marks the beginning of the main tourist season and the place is filling up quickly. Unlike this bus...

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I'm sad to be leaving, but there are things to do and people to see in the UK - Mums Birthday is on Friday and my Grandads funeral is in a couple of weeks. Then there is my daughter, whom over the last 4/5 months especially, I have been missing a lot - a feeling stronger than in recent years that I am missing out on her youth. I'd like to see her as much as possible this summer when her school holidays begin and hopefully money/work/crypto/time will give me that opportunity.

When I rode up to one of the bars yesterday, the owner joked with another client about distracting me and 'pinching' my bike. My response was "you can have it if you want", and that led onto a conversation about his daughter, who is over for the summer helping out, looking for a bike to get around on.

She came in shortly after and we have an arrangement where it's hers while I'm away - which could be anywhere from 1 month to 10 years, so I think I just gave my bike away for free :) I have hope that this sort of thing comes around, and so hopefully when I get to Nottingham someone I've never met will just hand me a 400 euro bike, hmmm...

Anyway, it's better than it sitting in a shed, rusting away for who knows how long, and a nice feeling to leave the island with. My two beers were free yesterday, and maybe that will be the case next time I'm there - she could be running the bar next time I'm around.

The back of this bus is pretty noisy like, but it's where the legroom is so I'll suffer it. The sun is up now and the forecast is 29 today - the hottest day of the year so far. Looking at the weather app and Manchester, I see 14 and raining. Standard.

One of the main reasons for leaving the UK was the shit weather and lack of sunshine in the winter. It may sound lame but for those who haven't followed me for the past two years, Seasonal Affective Disorder got me pretty bad and got worse year on year until I felt I had to change my location. I learned how the mind can negatively affect the body, and it was scary. Anyway, I'm nervous to find out how (if I'm still there!) this coming winter will be as I don't think SAD is curable by overdosing on sunshine for 3 years. Perhaps if I'm not on a 9-5 schedule and working in an office then things will be different, but if that's not my duty then I'm not sure what else I'll be doing. If it's bar work then, after a nice summer with my daughter and old friends, I might as well be in the sunshine doing that eh?

Steemfest this year is very doubtful for me, which is a total bummer as I'd like nothing more than to get a single ticket to Bangkok at the start of November, get the conference in and then backpack it down to the islands. Anyone got €3000 to 'lend' me? 😀

If that opportunity is available to someone, I highly recommend it - solo or with a friend, male or female. I met a girl in an Internet cafe in Bangkok many years ago, she was planning to head back to Canada after getting really sick in Laos, I think it was. The other option was to go to the Perhentian Islands off the east coast of Malaysia - that sounded nice and so I asked if she'd like some company. I have fond memories of Asia.

Right then, we are almost at the airport and I've not copy/pasted this ramble into Busy and uploaded the photos yet.

See you on 'home' soil, I hope my bother has a spare coat.

Asher

Comments · 30

  • @blanchy(75)· 2637d

    I remember my last day in the canaries ! I miss it every day. I didn't have a daughter back then though so I would say I would be exactly in the same boat if I was you. I struggled big time when I came home with the change in lifestyle

  • @janton(71)· 2639d

    Howdy sir asher! I feel for you having to go back to a sucky climate. One of the main reasons we moved to Texas was because of the warmth and ample sunshine year round, got a good tan during the first winter we were here.

    Anyway, I bet it will all work out that England isn't a permanent residence. Good luck sir Asher!

  • @yeaho(59)· 2640d

    schönes Bild :) ich war vor 2 wochen auch dort. Die sonnenuntergänge sind echt klasse :)

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  • @tryskele(65)· 2641d

    Cherish the time you get with your daughter. I unfortunately know that feeling of missing out about not have her with you everyday. Plus the area you are living in making you sick. Hard thing for a mother to admit. Long ugly story. I have a great relationship with her so things can work. I'm proof. At least phones take pictures now LOL.

    Hope your trip back goes well. I'm sure you'll see your beach again. Next time you'll have your daughter with you. She is going to want to see where dad lived. :)

  • @smasssh(67)· 2641d

    'hopefully when I get to Nottingham someone I've never met will just hand me a 400 euro bike]

    You know what they say: 'Can you count? Then don't count on it' ...

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  • @bluerobo(70)· 2641d

    Have a !BEER

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  • @revisesociology(82)· 2641d

    Welcome home,

    I guess your best strategy is just to bury yourself in a job hunt to distract yourself from the weather.

    Politics is also best avoided, it's just a farce ATM.

  • @karinxxl(76)· 2641d

    mixed feeling on every huge move as always my friend!!

    seems like a good one at the moment, and yeah...flexibility also helps in the seasonal affective disorder i can tell (even though it will not totally go away ever)

    but uhhhhh...get a sponsor for SF4 dude.....we need your skills! (and I am not talking about the techy ones!)

  • @birdsinparadise(68)· 2641d

    Good luck on your trip back to UK. I'm sure you'll be so glad you're able to spend quality time with your daughter. They do grow up fast, you have to catch the time the want to spend with you while you have it, lol Beautiful beach and sunrise...I see why you loved it :) Best of luck!

  • @newageinv(74)· 2641d

    I think then positives outweigh the negatives as there is nothing better than spending time with your daughter! I am also sad about Steemfest not looking to be in my future but maybe next week with even more planning and a crypto boom!

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  • @tarazkp(86)· 2641d

    Enjoy the time with your family until the family life settles in and the arguments start :)

    Does the UK still have Internet or was it lost in Brexit?

  • @anmeitheal(46)· 2642d

    Asher, You should head for Liverpool as it's all sunshine there at the moment ;)

  • @galenkp(84)· 2642d

    I'd spot you the €3000 if I had it but alas I do not. Safe travels Asher, I hope your mum's health is on the rise and all goes well I'm a few weeks for your grandad's funeral.

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  • @gillianpearce(67)· 2642d

    Welcome back @abh12345.

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    The view from my window right now. 😁

  • @joythewanderer(81)· 2642d

    Safe travels Asher. Leaving a place you’ve lived for the past 3 years is certainly hard. Wish you all the best.

    Seasonal Affective Disorder got me pretty bad and got worse year on year until I felt I had to change my location.

    Sorry when you mentioned SAD in the past, I always thought you were joking ...

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  • @nathen007(73)· 2642d

    You can look at a blank page at the start of a new chapter as a mostly scarey or most exciting. I bet your daughter is leaning strongly towards exciting!

    You'll be fine, just another step. Be easy on yourself fella and best wishes as always :-)

  • @wolfhart(63)· 2642d

    Be safe my friend. Right now family is best for you and them. Best wishes always

  • @pennsif(77)· 2642d

    Welcome back to the UK!

    You should be boosting the number of active Steemians in the UK by a couple of percent at least 😃

  • @apshamilton(73)· 2642d

    Sorry to hear you're leaving the sun & beach and heading back to England, but family is important too. Hope you bond with your daughter.

  • @bashadow(70)· 2642d

    I hope you enjoyed the flight, the bike thing will pay a lot of dividends, things and action of that nature always pay of in the end, It may not happen real quick, but one day down the road it will be paid back. It happened to/for me. I help a complete stranger out, went home with out that new stereo I was going to buy, 25 years later, I was completely incapable of removing snow and that was done for free by a nice person, so I can pretty much guarantee your kind action will be paid back.

    Live life how you see fit, have some time with your mother and uncle and other family members, make some new memories, share some old memories.

    When SAD starts to hit if you are still there in the winter, get a light box and natural sun lights, they help a little bit, but to be honest not a whole lot, just enough to take the edge off somewhat and help make it through the day.

  • @fionasfavourites(77)· 2642d

    Beautiful photos. What bittersweet sentiments. Safe travels and all the best for the next chapter.

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  • @felander(73)· 2642d

    so hopefully when I get to Nottingham someone I've never met will just hand me a 400 euro bike check with robin hood?

    and about the work? in summer? try gardning? its outdoors and all you need is a lawnmower and some basic tools? I hear the English looooovvvveee their gardens, so find the lazy ones and have them pay you massive dubloons so you can join us at steemfest

  • @erikah(83)· 2642d

    Have a safe flight! See you soon 😉☀️🌅🌞🏖️

  • @slobberchops(82)· 2642d

    If it's any consolation... it's not raining today, and yeah that's a little unusual as you know. Have a safe trip :)

  • @whatsup(76)· 2642d

    The photos are great and interesting times... To be continued... comes to mind.

  • @oldtimer(76)· 2642d

    I don't agree about the quality of the photos. They're great.

  • @meesterboom(81)· 2642d

    Aw dude, mixed feelings indeed. Saying goodbyes is never easy.

    Back in blighty. At least this weather can't last, the sun is bound to poke is head out a tiny bit? Maybe, hopefully?

    Just think you might get a job no bother and start coining in the golden doubloons and be totally laughing. I am sure your daughter will be happy too. Safe travels back dude!