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There was a routine built over the years and specific moments associated with smoking. There were days when I thought it would be easier to simply give up on the attempt and continue as I had before. After all, I already knew that life and knew exactly what to expect from it. But, for some reason, I was stubborn. I decided I would not go back, even when I wanted to.
And perhaps that is exactly where stubbornness made a difference because I was not always motivated. I did not always feel strong. Sometimes, continuing was simply a matter of holding on for one more day. Then another one. And another. In the end, I realized that not every victory happens in a grand way. Sometimes, winning is simply refusing to go back to something you know you need to leave behind. My stubbornness helped me because I was using it against a problem I genuinely wanted to overcome.
But I have also realized that being stubborn can make things worse. I think we have all insisted on situations that, looking back, were already lost long before we decided to stop. Relationships can be like that, whether with friends or girlfriends, and I had a relationship like that many years ago, in which I was stubborn, believing that things would get better.
Well, they did not. If a decision had been made earlier, a lot of pain could have been avoided, and perhaps my life would have taken a different direction sooner or other opportunities might have appeared. But the truth is that we only really know these things afterward, when we can look at everything from the outside. In the moment, it is difficult to have a clearer understanding of our decisions, whether we should continue being stubborn about something or simply put an end to it. Sometimes it happens like where the situation or moment force us to make a stubborn personality. Which also makes a negative or a positive impact on us. We all have face the situation where we don't listen to other people and we believe in our decision. At that moment we don't know what is right and wrong but we have the full confidence in ourselves. But sometimes it also have a negative impact human decision can also be made wrong. At this time attitude ego of a human mind is at peak. It's hard to convince someone. But there are also some people who always walk in stubborn personality.
Well it happens with me when I am playing cricket, but I think you can all it confidence not the stubborn personality. Let me explain in detail in a match where we were in critical situation we can either lose or win the match. The wickets were also down we have few runs and balls to hit I don't remember clearly but almost 24 runs in 6 balls. So we have to hit the 4 runs. I keep the strike with myself the first ball was dot. But if we want to run for single we can but I didn't.
At that time this was confidence that yeah I can hit those sixes. So I kept the strike with me. And then I hit the 3 six in a row. After that again a single ball get dot and we didn't run. So the game needs 6runs in 1ball. And I hit the last ball for six and we won the match. While all the teammates lose some amount of confidence. But I was like no I will do it no matter what people think or say in their mind. i believe in myself and rest all the people are wrong.
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