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Are You Living for Yourself or for Society?

Look, we all take many big decisions of our life on our own and sometimes it happens that we take some decisions under pressure. We do not want to do it willingly but still we have to do it because if we do not do it then we have to face a lot of problems. Some people are very free willed and they do not care about the society nor does it matter to them what people will think and who knows what else. Their mindset is that if they have to do something then they have to do it, it does not matter to them what people think and whether the customs of the society allow it or not, they do not worry about it at all. If you are also like this then you are also free. And you are free in the true sense. But not everyone can do this because some people have compulsions and there are some reasons due to which not everyone can do this.

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If you are a part of a society then you have to live according to the society and there are so many customs and traditions that you have to follow and if you try to go against them then problems start arising for you. Many people do not care about all these things and they do not care what people will think or what bad consequences it will have for them and they just keep doing what they want. Sometimes these things are very beneficial and sometimes a particular person gets harmed by it. Well, people keep on thinking all sorts of things but it becomes a bit difficult to make everything possible every time.

Well, you see many people want to do something that makes them feel free and they want to break those chains but this is not in everyone's power because some people just talk and cannot do anything. But some people in front of us are such that they do not care what people will think and to be honest, their mindset is a bit different. And if you can take your own decisions willingly and can do good for yourself then it is good. Many times it happens that under pressure we take some decisions which we should not have taken and we regret it later. Because see, no matter who the person is, he remembers his decisions only for some time and after that everyone forgets them, such is the mentality of human beings.

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People only remember things for a short time, after which everyone forgets and things don't always come to mind. So, I would say that if you want to make a decision for yourself, you should think for yourself and not make any decisions by asking others, because it's your life and you are responsible for it. Whatever decisions you make will determine your future, and what your future will be like will, in a way, be determined by your actions today. So overall, if you have the opportunity to take decisions for yourself without any pressure, it is a very good thing because not everyone gets such a good fortune.

Even today, there are people in our society who consider themselves too powerful by imposing restrictions on others. This shouldn't be a concern, but each individual has their own life, and we should support them and allow them to do whatever they want, provided it is for their own benefit and doesn't cause any problems in the lives of others. Because sometimes some people do things that cause trouble to others. We should definitely stop such things, but sometimes if a person wants to do something for his own happiness, we should allow him to do it, and it should happen. When a person does something happily, then its result is different. What do you think about this?

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  • do you think people can ever truly escape societal expectations?

  • you have written very well, and I'm happy i read your post word for word, it is true people don't really care what really happens in other's life, people are busy trying to sort themselves out, but most times we are do caught uo with what people will say or think about us..

    especially me I'm so careful about what others say or think of me. a line in your post caught my attention. that we shouldn't rely on others about some key decision that we want to make, cause this depends a lot on us and the outcome of our future,

    i love this post and I'm glad i read it...

    I'm just like living for the society and what others think, like i don't have a freewill to do my own things because of where i find myslef, I'm an introvert and often quiet, so the voice of others seems to dictate my course of action, but reading this has made my day, thankyou my friend

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  • @intishar(76)· 1d

    Others has no right to justify us as long as they are not getting harmed by us. We should care about us first later about the society. Society people is not going to feel me or my life is not going to be shaped by the society. I will make my choice in like and I will be responsible for it. Who cares about society? I am selfish in such a case. !PIZZA

  • @jenifers(64)· 1d

    I think society is never really there for you. Imagine you don't have food to eat or electricity at home. Will society come forward to help you? no. Just look at the people begging on the roadsides they are exposed to the cold and rain. They are often treated as if they don't even deserve basic human dignity by the very society that talks so much about customs and values. I think you should live your life the way you want to otherwise you will never truly get the chance to express yourself. You can spend your whole life trying to make others happy or proud of you but that doesn't mean you will be happy yourself. Making someone else proud won't give you the satisfaction that comes from doing something you wanted to do. People will always have something to say but they won't be the ones living your life or dealing with the consequences of your decisions. So their opinions should not matter more than your own happiness.

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  • @steemflow(81)· 1d

    society sirf bolne ki hoti hai, isliye apne liye jio

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  • @storicious(70)· 1d

    Personally, I try to follow a balanced approach. There are few things which are mine; there are things which can be forgiven. Most of the time, I prefer to go with my own understanding or feelings. But yes, I do have a morality check in there. I will not be doing anything which is morally corrupt, ethically? Well ethics can be compromised sometimes, to some extent. I do respect everyone else's decision; but I am not allowing anyone else to make a great mess. Pity things are just okay, let those things pass.

    Or wese bhi bhai, hm jis geographical region se h wahan to society k kia hi keehna h. Zabardasti har aik cheez m ghusna h sbko. Ghar m kia chl raha h, pura muhalla ko khabar rakhni h. Uska beta/beti k itna number agai h, tumhara wala ne kia kya. Or aisi hazaron batain. Ab to kabhi kabhar lagta h k m hi shayad galat hn, jo har aik cheez m masla h, lol.

    In the end: Aik Kachoori Do Samosa, in Mardon k kia bharosa :)