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Fear is not about putting you in the danger but fear is an internal feelings and condition. Fear is about having worries about situation which have not even happened to us. Fear is totally natural feelings but we have to control the feeling of fear. Once i read somewhere, we can control fear only after we have experienced the fear of certain thing. Fear can be about anything sometimes about losing someone, sometimes from water, sometimes from height and sometimes from dogs too.
The fear that shaped my life!!
I always wanted to try new things in life but i start to discuss my new ideas with my friends and family. My friends and family start to worry about my ideas failing which stopped me to try new things. The fear of failure starts taking over my mind and I decide not to work on my ideas.
Then before start something new in life i start to think about conclusion that what will the consequences of the project I'll start. When I start thinking about result of my new ideas I start to believe that I ca n not do anything in life. For a few years i took a pause and i stopped trying new things in life. Trying something new does not mean that I have to do something big. Small activities can also be new experiences when I have never done them before.
People usually judge my abilities according to their own experience and overall performance. The problem begins when I start to compare myselves with everyone around me, we have to understand our own abilities what we can actually achieve in life. Other people cannot completely define our abilities because I know my own strengths and weaknesses better than anyone else.
How I broke the fear of starting something new??
My enthusiasm to do something new in life, Even during those years when I stopped trying new things, I continued learning and collecting information. However, I only gathered knowledge and never applied that knowledge anywhere. I really don't know how i gather a strength to believe in myself as you know the first step is always difficult and once you passed the first step the other will be easy.
I started to keep my thoughts and my ideas only to me and stop to share other's especially when other will force me to surrender. I was afraid to do things for the very first time, but I broke that fear by experiencing new things myself. I stopped listening to other people's experiences's and I decided to learn from my own experience. Now those people really feel amaized and surprised when i told them about something which i already did and people are there to appreciate because i tell them after done this.
Final thoughts!!
Fear of do things for the first time is the fear that stopped me to do a lot of things and stopped me to experience a totally new world but it was me who break the fear by experience it's first time and till now if i start a new thing I'm be like it's okay if I can't do this but important thing id that I'll not regret that i haven't tried this before.
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