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The Start Line

I have been a bit under the weather this weekend, with a mild migraine starting yesterday evening forcing me to lay down for a half hour. Migraines are rare these days, with the last one being just before I had a stroke five years ago, so it was a bit unsettling to have another one. If I have another stroke, I hope it kills me or gives me a superpower.


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I went to the gym today, anyway.

Granted, I kept my workout pretty low-key, lifting no weights, just stretching out my legs, hips and lower back. A few of my workouts each week are pretty light in terms of effort required, but I am pushing myself into the stretches more. I was watching a guy a little older than myself, so maybe early fifties, do some jumps along the mat pictured above, and I don't want to be like that. It was like his knees could no longer absorb the impact so didn't bend, making the exercise terrible for his knees. It was awkward and jerky in motion and it made me realise...

I need to film my own jumping!!!

I didn't do it at the gym tonight, but I will have to find a quiet time to give it a go. Because, I don't want to become one of those doddering old men who is unable to stand straight, walk smoothly, and will fall over in a stiff breeze. Degradation is part of getting older of course, but the speed of degradation can differ a lot between people.

I had dinner with a friend the other night and while we chowed-down on pizza and a glass of wine, we talked about how we could both lose a few pounds. She and I have been friends for over twenty years now and used to often go to the gym together, but our results at the gym were not great, due to the weekends we would have. Still, she was saying that her husband went to the gym three days in a row last week and started to get sick and she told him,

"you are 53, you can't exercise like you used to!"

Of course he can!!! He is in pretty good shape for his age, and as a lawyer, but once we get it in our heads that we need to "slow down" because we are getting older, it is over. In my opinion at least, the slowdown shouldn't be a drop in frequency, but instead a slight drop in intensity. At least from what I have noted through my life, the people who limit the days they go to the gym, tend to have worse results than the people who consistently go to the gym but adjust their workouts to how they feel on the days.

I think this makes sense because a person who goes for example four times to the gym per week, working out hard on three of those days and having a lighter day, is more likely to do very little on the other days. However, a person who goes to the gym five or six times a week, does three hard workouts, a lighter day, and maybe another light day, a stretching day, or another medium day, will end up doing far more. Not only that, going to the gym regularly is probably a good strategy to limit bad diet habits also. Four times a week gives three potential cheat days. Six days with a couple lighter workouts, still leaves just one. People tend to eat healthier on the days they go to the gym, than the ones they don't.

So much of our lives have become sedentary experiences, that we have to artificially schedule movement. But, it is artificial and therefore, unnatural. It is no wonder so many people hate going to the gym, because we aren't really evolved to schedule movement, as it was just part of our lives to survive. For those who have very active lifestyles where they have to move their bodies a lot, going to the gym might not be a great benefit to them, even though eating a healthy diet is still necessary. For most of us though, we aren't active.

Kids naturally jump around and play, until their parents sit them in front of screens and games to keep them busy. Adults used to do this also, as work demanded it. However, I wonder what my movement profile would be like if I didn't go to the gym. How often would I lift my hands above my head, or jump? How often would I carry the kinds of weights required to maintain muscle and bone density? How often would I stretch or strengthen the various bits of my body that would keep me capable into older age?

Rarely.

Are you different than me?

Maybe you are, but I would question how much of people's lives in the modern world have positive effects on their bodies and health in comparison to the time spent doing things that have a negative impact. And "going to the gym" isn't strictly the answer for many people for various reasons either, but couldn't we all be doing something? One of those door jamb pull-up bars and a couple resistance bands and a huge amount of exercises for the entire body can be done. Doing the exercise at home is the challenge most face and it has proven very inconsistent for me. But I also know some people who exercise a lot and hard at home also.

It is funny in some way, because I am in terrible condition given the many physical challenges I have faced since a teen, but I am still trying to improve, or slide back more slowly. It is also funny, because I don't think the future is very bright, nor do I think I will leave far into old age, but I still believe that being healthy is important. But I think the strangest thing is when I meet people who are positive about the future, want to live a long life, but are in terrible condition and have zero interest in doing anything about it.

I have never heard someone say, "My life is worse because I exercise regularly."

Every day we wake up at the start line.

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Comments · 12

  • @owasco(73)· 9h

    "going to the gym" isn't strictly the answer for many people for various reasons

    For me, the reason I don't go to the gym is that I hate it. I hate repetitive exercise, I hate the smells there, I hate that most people seem uptight. Oh wait, that might be me who feels uptight. I don't have the right clothes!

    I garden, clean my own home, go for regular walks in nature, and do Tai Chi. No gym needed for me.

    I believe that, as we age, we most definitely must change our exercise to meet challenges of diminishing strength, weakening balance, and endurance. But 53 is still pretty young to have to pull back much.

  • @relf87(76)· 16h

    Take care and get well soon!

  • @mortezayousefi(69)· 17h

    it's wild how we turn walking into a chore instead of a natural move

  • @bozz(83)· 19h

    With the weather starting to turn, I am going to have to find some other things to do outside of my exercises. It's fine when I can mow the lawn and work around the yard, but once that isn't an option, I probably don't get enough movement.

  • @coinjoe(73)· 23h

    Self discipline is my challenge anymore. Talking my big ass into getting up and walking is a feat it seems like. Funny thing is, once I start it is no big deal to finish. Yeah, I am tired and winded. But once I start that young mind of mine kicks in and pushes me through finishing. Just need to get better at starting to begin with.

  • @urrirru(65)· 1d

    A first post for the morning, and some good motivation. Today I’m heading to the park, where I’ll walk for an hour longer than usual. After some physical activity, it’s a pleasure to get back to the work I love.

  • @ryivhnn(73)· 1d

    If I have another stroke, I hope it kills me or gives me a superpower.

    I hope you don't have another stroke :S but if you do I hope you get a really cool superpower or it at least fixes the other stroke.

    you are 53, you can't exercise like you used to!

    INCORRECT you (generic not you personally) just can't gung ho into it like you used to, when we're old we have to ease into things more like taking half an hour to warm up when we could just about jump straight in once upon a time XD

    I like to tease Eldest and his friend about being "old" (they're 21) as they take ages to cool down after class and if we have to do workshops in the morning Eldest only half jokingly starts stretching before even going in saying he needs to do his "pre warmup warmup". Even at that age they've noticed that along with feeling the need to spend longer on warmup and cooldown (things they used to impatiently rush when younger because it's boring) it takes longer to recover than it used to (plus longer to get back onto something if they got injured/scared). So some stuff is going to slow down in spite of everything.

    Like while I do need to do more jumping up (I usually block jump up things but lately I've been lazy and kind of bouncing up in stages or vaulting up everything including things I can easily jump up) I usually jump down and I have noticed my knees have decided they just don't wanna sometimes and I am jumping up or off things very regularly at work.

    Kids naturally jump around and play, until their parents sit them in front of screens and games to keep them busy.

    Or distracted so they can "just get it done"! This used to drive me mad with my mother in law but I was never going to complain to her face because when the kids were little I asked if she would be able to please come around and hang out with them and do stuff with them (take them out or whatever or do whatever around the house and just be there for the endless questions and interactions that happen when you homeschool) and she decided she was going to help with the housework instead and because the kids helping slowed her down she kept putting them in front of games or tv shows so they wouldn't get in her way all the time.

    I still made them do chores so they know how to clean and do laundry and cook, Middle is doing alright but the boys still "forget" or find every excuse under the sun about why it's literally impossible for them to ever do anything at all. Eldest will do specific chores I tell him to do shortly after I've told him to do them but can't seem to figure out how to just do standard maintenance tasks before they become disgusting without being specifically told to do them

    It is also funny, because I don't think the future is very bright, nor do I think I will leave far into old age, but I still believe that being healthy is important

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  • or gives me a superpower.

    But what if writing is already your superpower?

    Of course he can!!! He is in pretty good shape for his age, and as a lawyer, but once we get it in our heads that we need to "slow down" because we are getting older, it is over.

    Our minds work in mysterious ways. Our favorite neighbour's husband died a few days ago. Yesterday she said that she called both me amd my mother multiple times. Neither me or my mother got any calls(that neigbour needs eyes operation so maybe she was just misclicing something...) so she thought that we died as well.

  • I think consistency is probably more important than pushing ourselves to the limit every time, even on days when we don't feel at our best.

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  • @seattlea(78)· 1d

    Don't know about slowing down, I am fifty and I am used to very intense workouts and having more than three of those per week is hard. As you get older I seem to need more time to recover and there are a lot more injuries. Like my left elbow has some tendon that feels funny, my knees are no longer able to take the volume of squats I used to do and my lower back is sore regularly.

    But when I workout I still feel like I am twenty... I still can do 20+ pull-ups with good form and without stopping, I can easily do 100 pushups and I am still fast at sprints. I look like I did in my 20s and 30s muscle wise, but it is not the same... the body is just more fragile, I am no longer indestructible.

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