Reply by @frank00234

Please don’t carry the weight of that lost night as if it were a failure. We are human, and our intuition, though often strong, is not a clock. We cannot choose the moment of a departure, nor the specific way in which we are present to accompany it. The presence of your brother J. was a gift to them, but your love was no less present or any less profound, even in your absence that final night. Don’t let the circumstances of that one night overshadow the devotion you showed them throughout their lives. They are at peace, and you have honoured them with your devotion. Allow yourself to breathe, knowing that you did what you could and that love transcends physical presence at the final moment.