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The answer is yes.
We have two types of relationships, on one hand is a healthy relationship and on the other, is an unhealthy relationship. Despite the fact that they are different, sometimes they both possess something in common, that is "LOVE."
We often believe that whenever love is present in a relationship, then you've automatically found the right person, and they will treat us well, understand us, protect our hearts and do what is best for us.
But we forget that, someone can love you so much and still hurt you. They will miss you when you're gone, think about you everyday, plan their future with you in it, buy you everything you desire, pamper you, and genuinely want you in their life, yet their actions make you unhappy, feel insecure and emotionally exhausted.
A relationship where love exists without emotional safety can be one of the most confusing and painful relationships to be in. It can be very heartbreaking. Sometimes the problem isn't that the person doesn't love you but how they love you.
They can love you and still disrespect you, they can love you and still emotionally neglect you, they can love you and still be dishonest, they can love you and still not value you.
Someone who claims to love you will not repeatedly do or say something that he clearly knows hurts you alot. They won't repeatedly behave in a way that will make you feel small, insecure, hurt, disrespected or even emotionally exhausted.
A relationship that steals your peace, isn't worth your love and efforts. You have to look beyond words, " I love you," and pay attention to how they make you feel.
You don't have to constantly abandon yourself to keep the relationship peaceful. Put yourself first, your feelings matters too. You deserve to be happy.
Start telling yourself “I know they love me, but they aren't good for me."
No relationship is perfect. But, a healthy relationship is one that always admits when they are wrong, take responsibility and make changes. A relationship should always be built on the foundation of not just love, but also respect, trust, accountability, and emotional security.
You deserve to be loved and respected, you deserve to be loved and valued, you deserve to be loved and have peace of mind, you deserve to be loved and have emotional security, you deserve to be loved and happy.
So, love isn't always enough, if the relationship robs you of your peace of mind, if it doesn't make you happy, then it's not worth staying in. Sometimes, loving yourself means letting go.
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