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I choose to believe in myself [LOH contest 305]

Hello everyone!!!

Hello to Ladies of Hive 👋

I hope so you all are doing well 😀

It's been a long time since I've written here but i checked the community from time to time and read posts of different Ladies of Hive, sometimes in touch with kitty girl and others too. But i saw that this week we're celebrating the sixth anniversary of Ladiesofhive and i don't want to miss the chance to write in the community.

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Happy 6th Anniversary Ladiesofhive 🎉🎈

I still remember my first day on Hive and I find the community in my early day's and i feel strong to see a community here about women's empowerment and especially when I read the about of the community. This community always feel like home because i think no one can understand us more then a women who suffers the same well it's another story and i was so active in Ladiesofhive community that i start to get recognize on Hive.

How do I find my strength???

Obviously being a Lady i heard it often it's not allowed for you, you can't do this, people think I'm a girl so i can not more things in life as they make feel I'm small or low then them. But i never listen to them what they said about me, it hurt's obviously when we listen such compliment about us but we've ignore those shity compliment because those can't make us week.

If we start to listen those harsh compliment against us then really we start to think about it and we become week with time but we don't give too much focus on them. As when i started to do something, i do it for myself not to prove other's. It's ok sometimes i tell them but not all the time.

I think i don't need to find strength as the strength is in me and I've to listen to me instead of listening others because i know myself and my abilities not other's. I know that how much far i can go and you can say that we've to believe on ourselves. Self confidence is important in this case when it comes about strength.

Like other girls, I'm sensitive too but the one good thing is in me my self confidence and a little stubborn behavior to do things which i really want to do and then little rebellious who can go against to them who said i can't do anything. These mix element make me stronger and mostly I've parents to support who believes in me but still in many cases they don't believe in me like they said you're a girl and you can't do but then I'm alone enough on my missions and i think life will goes on.

Final thoughts!!!

If we find strength in other's like i should have someone who can support me who can trust me then we could fail because not everyone can agree to us, it's ok having someone in life who trust us is good but if you've yourself who trust in you then you're more stronger.

That's all for today and it's my entry in this week #ladiesofhive contest round 305

Thank you for your time and support 🙏

Comments · 8

@ladiesofhive(72)· 4h

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@jenifers(55)· 4h
It's a great virtue to not try to get validations instead you have confidence. I think it is a blessing to have confidence because for some people it's not easy. But you are doing fine and I think you can go ahead in life. May God bless you.
@kerrislravenhill(74)· 4h
Self confidence is that we are following a distinct plan, clear goals, the flexibility to make changes when circumstances change and peers that we can trust, value and rely upon to tell us the truth about ourselves.

!LADY
@cautiva-30(74)· 9h
Knowing your own capabilities and having self-confidence is invaluable; when paired with a rebellious spirit, it undoubtedly helps you maintain your strength in the face of challenges and Believe in yourself—have a wonderful day @les90

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@bhattg(81)· 10h
First of all welcome back to the community also I am also new here but it's good to read your post.

I believe that if you are confident enough then we don't care about others and that is necessary in our life at some point. Yes sometimes life is not like as we think but if you are able to do that according to your plan then it's a great thing.

We all should have goals our life and that is necessary because it keeps a busy and motivated to do something never life if you don't have any kind of goals then life is like nothing.

Thanks for sharing your opinion. Good luck.

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