In this current world we are in and in this current dispensation, a lot of things are happening that most people can really understand why they are happening, and we cannot really figure out what the solution is. But to some people, they see this time as a time for them to express all their heart desires and feelings that people have not seen before. This time, depression and hardship are currently rolling out to people. And it only takes the strong heart to be able to cope during this time. But one thing that baffles me is that some people still go around talking about people and still finding faults in what people do around them.
SourceWhile I was going out, I have been thinking of different ways to handle different issues depending on what the issue is. I have been among people that are way older than me, and I have seen the way they tackle issues that are related to having fights with people around me. So the issue now is that some weeks back I was with some of my friends, and we were traveling for an occasion that eventually made some issues occur, but the fact that I have some experience from the people I have been with, I was able to tackle the issue in a way that it got settled easily.
So someone made a statement that was a general statement to everyone, and sometimes the way people interpret what you say really matters because you might say something and the way people perceive what you say will be different. That is why sometimes when I want to say something, I always ensure that I make myself clear so that there won't be any confusion later on when people are trying to refer back to what I have said; there won't be any misunderstanding.
A friend of mine made statements that were general statements to everyone, but in the long run when I later heard about the issue, I now heard that the statement was directed to a particular person, whose letter ended up causing issues between two friends. And one thing is that when you start having issues with your friend or you hear something about someone and you cannot confront the person directly to be sure of what you have had issues will continue to bring out because you're not verifying the information you hear but just acting.
Another thing I have come to realize in life is that, most of the time, fake news spreads much faster than the real news, and the reason is most people derive joy in spreading false news rather than spreading the real good news about something or someone. After I heard about all the story, i had to call the both parties and make sure that peace reign in every aspect. We cannot get joy from causing commotions or fighting one another. Also, I am not saying that boundaries should not be kept, but there are different ways that can be done that will not affect anyone. Be at peace with everyone and let peace reign.
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