Forcing people into your life or allowing people to force themselves into your life is just an easy way of causing problems for yourself from scratch because doing this will only jeopardize your life. A lot of people are coming into our lives, and they go when they have fulfilled the mission that they have coming into our life to do. Lots of people coming into our lives with different motives. Why do some people come into your life to make your life a good one and to be a better person? Some people also come into our lives to also destroy it, and this is not in a good way.
SourceSometimes we might be acting so good and always trying to look out for orders, but some people somewhere might also be looking for a downfall for you because they are never satisfied with whatever thing you are doing or whatever things you are willing to do to people. This type of person is the kind of person that would want to come into your life to make it miserable. That is why we need to be very careful and watchful while trying to make other people's lives better. We should not always neglect our own lives at the expense of others because not everyone's intentions are pure towards us.
Recently, a famous and popular singer, a gospel singer, passed away, and yesterday was the service of song, and a lot of partners, friends, colleagues, and also singers were present at the ceremony. Why people were called upon to give an entry about what the deceased has done in their lives, lots of people said good remarks about what he has done even to his band members. A lot of hidden things were not known to people until yesterday. But come to think of it, amongst people that were talking about this man yesterday, there will still be some people that do not have a clean heart towards him.
Well, I am not saying that death might have come from any human because I don't have an answer to that. But one thing I am saying is that despite the good things he has done to people, it is not possible for him not to have enemies because that is just the way this life has been programmed to be. So you have enemies at some point, and you also have friends at some point, but you have to now make it balance because not all friends have good intentions towards you. That's why you just have to be yourself and know your worth in every way.
Now, back to where I was coming from. Always choose yourself no matter the condition, and always make sure that you do not depend all your life on someone, maybe because they are helping you or have helped you before. In a short sense, I am not saying we should not be appreciative or show appreciation to those that have helped us one way or the other, but we should not let our life revolve around them because whenever they decide to stop, we will not feel so indebted or entitled to whatever they have been doing for us.
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