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This text reminded me of my own marriage. When I met my wife, everything felt simple. After we got married and had our first child, I began hearing things like, "What will people think?" or "Why can't you just go with the flow?" I have always been the kind of person who says what he thinks, even if it means rubbing people the wrong way. My wife, on the other hand, pays much more attention to appearances and to how things are perceived by others.
From a stoic point of view, one could argue that one of us should have had to give up part of our character. In reality, the opposite happened. After 38 years together, we are still very different people. We have simply learned not to turn the other person into a better version of ourselves.
I believe that many of the changes we make in life are not made solely for ourselves. Sometimes we change because of love, out of respect, or because another person truly matters to us. That is not necessarily the same as adopting a false character. It only becomes a problem when we lose ourselves in the process.
Today, a single glance into my wife's eyes is often enough for me to know what she is thinking—and, most of the time, she knows exactly what is going on in my mind as well. Perhaps a good life is not about never compromising. Perhaps it is about knowing which parts of our character are non-negotiable and which parts are allowed to grow when we choose to walk through life together.
