Welcome once again to my blog today, and for this topic today, I have some things to say, as it is one I can very well relate with. And for me, one of the hardest part of building the kind of life that you want is loneliness. I mean, to be honest with you, it feels like I'm even at the moment. I'm so focused on becoming a better person, getting a good job, making money, and achieving my goals that I don't even have time for a lot of things anymore.
I remember a very good friend of mine telling me just yesterday that I didn't wish him a qhappy new month, and that's because I've always been the type to message almost everyone and wish them a happy new month, but this month I only did for a few people because of how busy I am.
Also, another thing that often causes this is how you at times look at your age mates, colleagues, and all who are already doing well in their various careers, and you're still in a position trying to figure things out. It often makes one feel left behind as if one is not even doing anything or trying enough. And with time I've come to realize a lot of things, one of which is that not everyone will follow you through your various stages in life. I've had friends who I believe will be together forever. Guess what? We're not even together anymore. Talk less about being forever. People change, things happen, and we all go our separate ways; some of the time it is not even as if there's an issue, we just go distant.
Success is good, success is beautiful, and even though success might mean different things to different people, still everyone wants to be successful. But that is where people come in. We all have people that love and care for us in our lives, and we shouldn't because we're chasing success and growing distant from them, because at the end of that day when you're finally successful, who will you share your good news, success, and all with? That will be another different level of loneliness, when you now have everything you wanted but no one's on your side because you've pushed them all away.
What I'm saying in essence is that our ambitions and our relationships should be very well balanced. Because one will always, or at the end of the day, need the other.
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