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A Leg Up and Over

I was talking to one of the regulars at the gym this evening, who is in his late fifties. We chat occasionally and he is a small business owner with a relatively physical job, though he has a handful of employees that do most of the work these days. He is active at the gym and if anything, is a bit on the thin side, however he has some leg issues that have been creeping up on him with age.


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Tonight we were talking about how even though we are getting older (he has a decade on me), compared to many in our age group and even much younger, we are both in relatively good shape. He commented that if he had known what kind of pain he would experience now a decade or two ago, he would have done different exercises, stretched more, ensured his joints were healthier. Things that I have started doing more of this year, and I am feeling the benefits.

We are terrible at predicting how we are going to feel in the future, especially when it comes to our health, because we haven't experienced it before. When we are young, we can't imagine what it feels like to wake up with an aching back every morning, or struggling to put on shoes, or having laboured breathing when exerting ourselves. We feel okay and make the largely incorrect assumption that, we will always feel okay.

But as the guy noted tonight, another thing that people who aren't in decent shape aren't very good at, is reading negative changes in their body. It is something I hadn't thought much about earlier, but it must be pretty true that when someone exercises regularly and pays attention to how their body functions, when it isn't functioning, they notice it. This means that they can either course correct their activity, or they can rest or see a specialist. Their body can tell them when they are out of sync, because there is less noise, they are better at reading, and being active means that it gets uncovered earlier.

We are all, always training.

The problem is that much of the training we do is teaching negatively conditioning our body. It is easy to see with office workers for example, where they often have sore necks from staring at a screen, shoulders slumped. Or with kids with bad posture from again, staring at a screen. But it is harder to observe the changes in our eyesight from continually focusing on a screen a few inches from our face, or the muscles in our lower back from sitting down all the time, or the atrophy in our joints from disuse, or the pressure on our knees with each overweight step. All these negatives (and many more) compound and add up over time, so that while each day we don't notice, at some point the discomfort grows to the point we can't not notice.

At that point, we feel we have a problem, but the fact is that very few of these issues are acute and instead build over time and generally require a lot of time and effort to correct, if they can be reversed completely at all. For many of them, all that can be done is to improve the condition, but it will never be as good as it could have been.

If we think about our physical potential when we were twenty years of age, we pretty much all had a lot of room to grow, strengthen, improve, and insulate our future from daily aches and pains, as well as reduce the chances of chronic lifestyle disorders. At thirty, a lot of that potential has gone, but we still have a lot of improvement possibility. The problem is, most of us don't do the work until there is a problem. We don't "precondition" our body for a future pain we can't imagine having, so we keep on repeating whatever we feel is right for us now.

Right now, might be wrong later.

I know that if I could go back thirty years to when I started at a gym knowing what I know now about and how my body feels, I would have changed my routine and put more repetitive emphasis on conditioning, rather than building muscle. Muscle is important to build, but the body also should work as a flowing unit, and all the pieces need development and alignment for balance. It isn't too late to improve.

There is still potential to be better, even if there isn't the potential to be as good as I could have been had I started earlier. There is still the chance to reduce pain and inflammation in my body, and to increase my daily capabilities and how I feel in general.

I am a people watcher and when I walk down the street or through the shops, I see all kinds of people who are obviously not in good condition. It isn't just that there are many who are overweight, but there are also many who have troubles with the way they walk and stand, who are stopping or unable to bend, who look like their body isn't really cooperating with them and isn't assisting them through their daily lives. And it always makes me wonder if they recognise the discomfort and if they are doing something about it.

Are they working the problem, or avoiding it?

No one can eat healthy or exercise for me, so it is up to me to do the work required. Yes, there are various drugs out there that can assist with something like weight loss, but everything has side effects and what happens in twenty years from now, is still an unknown. Our body is an incredible tool, but like all tools, it needs to be maintained and we need to know how to use it properly to get the most out of it.

We often worry about whether we will have enough money when we retire and prepare for it. Shouldn't we also do the prep work required to ensure we also have enough health?

Our repetitive actions amplify their impacta over time.

How will you feel a year, ten years, twenty years from now?

Taraz [ Gen1: Hive ]


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Comments · 9

  • @bozz(83)· 1d

    It would be funny to see how I would react if I were at the gym and you just started talking to me out of nowhere. I'd probably be so uncomfortable, looking like a trapped animal trying to find any escape route to save its life! If I could go back and work on anything it would probably be my core. I need to get that in better shape even now, but having a head start on it would be nice.

  • Our overall wellbeing lies solemnly on us. It’s just as people wouldn’t like to visit hospital when they are not sick to the point of “death”. It’s just what we do out of ignorance or the cost implications of it, forgetting that if the situation gets worsen it would be difficult to manage. For instance, I have heard people mentioning that they are not feeling too good but couldn’t do much because of what they believe they will pay for such service. It is common in the part of the world.

    However, we must still help ourselves to stay healthy.

  • @emmanuel50(70)· 2d

    I think we often wait until we feel the pain before we start taking care of our bodies. It’s better to build good habits now, because our future self will thank us for it.

  • @urrirru(65)· 2d

    I enjoy walking several kilometers a day; I feel great after a walk in the fresh air. When young people say they are tired after walking just a couple of kilometers, or claim that a place is too far to walk to, I find myself thinking about how our ancestors used to cover vast distances on foot in a single day.

  • @ryivhnn(73)· 2d

    Yeh all the aches and pains (unless you have chronic pain from a relatively young age) and knowing how you're going to feel and think about things is difficult to predict/gauge even a year in advance never mind several decades. I knew several people in their late teens/early 20s back when I was at uni (and Youngest is doing the same now) where they cheerfully declared they would never get that old because they'd die doing something fun and exciting or get rid of themselves the second they became unable to do the things they loved right now as "growing out of" the things they loved right now and growing to love other things were unimaginable I guess. Most of them are probably still around.

    Speaking of Youngest like most young men his age he is hyperfocused on building muscle. Eldest and I have tried stressing the importance of also working joint strength and flexibility but it's falling on deaf ears (like everyone else he has already done all the research and considered all the options and knows he is doing exactly the right thing and anyone who says otherwise is stupid and uninformed). But I guess it's better than gaming all day.

    Also thanks for the indirect reminder that I have to do my joints, I've been a bit slack at work and haven't been jumping on and off the boxes as much as usual.

  • @seattlea(78)· 2d

    I need to do more stretching, probably should go back to doing more yoga. People do say that I look ten years younger than my age. Recently my co worker couldn't believe that I was 50, he thought that I was 40. And people have asked me "What is your anti-aging regimen" I also practically don't have grey hair which helps...

  • Agree that we often prepare financially for the future but don't think enough about preparing our bodies for it. When we are feeling fine, it is difficult to imagine how today's habits might affect us years later.

  • Fighting to make money sometimes does not allow us to exercise

  • When it comes to exercising, I think I am lagging behind.

    It's true that no one can eat healthy and exercise on behalf of us. Our bodies really are investment, worth maintaining.